Do You Know The Secrets To Attract Men?

Are you attracting men or sitting home alone on Saturday night?
Are you living as your authentic self?

What is an authentic self anyway?

One meaning for authentic is genuine. One meaning for genuine is unadulterated. Unadulterated is the perfect definition for the authentic self I am talking about.

When you are being authentic, you are living from the very core of YOUR nature, YOUR essence. This is the nature that you were born with and that gradually got adulterated as you grew up, as you interacted with adults.

The Unadulterated You

This process of becoming adulterated is a natural part of life. Many spiritual Gurus’ suggest that why we are on earth is to discover, to remember our true nature, our unadulterated Self.

Your true nature is, according to them, your God-Self, your essence, your Spiritual Core.

It doesn’t really matter if you believe this or not, but if you do, what I’m about to share with you will have added benefits beyond how to attract men and get dates.

Your true love is looking for you!

One day I attended a group kayak outing. I was asked to go with MG, a novice kayaker.

We paddled our 2-person kayak through the Mount Lake Cut, a narrow channel bounded by cement walls.

The waves from the power boats bounced off the walls and created a cascade of turbulence that relentlessly rocked our kayak.

Not wanting to embarrass myself and scare the MG on this inaugural kayak paddle, I focused on getting through the waves without turning over. I was also one of the most experienced kayakers in our group –

I had my pride.

A funny thing happened to me. I got so caught up in kayaking and being on the water, I forgot all of my adultness. For the next few hours, I inadvertently was my unadulterated authentic self.

I talked nonstop. I spewed out my hopes and dreams - what I wanted in my life today and in the future.

I was in heaven as we paddled by dozens of little turtles sunning their necks. I chatter on and on as we toured the houseboats from the waterline. I had a marvelous time.

As I drove away, I realized – hmm, I like MG.

I hadn’t been looking for a love interest that day, but maybe, just maybe I had found one.

It only took 10 minutes…

About half way to where I was going, it hit me like a ton of bricks. I had just spilled my guts to a perfect stranger. I had just been me.

Oh my god, what did MG think about me. I was a woman who couldn’t keep her mouth shut. I talked nonstop for 2 full hours.

In that moment, a tidal wave of embarrassment washed over me. How could I face MG ever again?

How could anyone want JUST me?

I hadn’t put my best foot forward. In fact, I’d put my everyday around the house worn in slippers self forward.

I just knew there was a better way of how to attract men or women.

I knew that all my chances for love were washed up

For several months, I avoided MG at other social events. Then one day, contact was unavoidable. We ended up playing a trick on a mutual friend.

The rest of the story…

That was ten years ago. MG and I will be celebrating our 10-year anniversary May 1, 2009.

MG had liked the real me, my authentic self.

What a concept – Someone wanted me….

I am still amazed that MG actually liked the everyday around the house worn in slippers
me – the authentic me.

When this happens, I know I’m forgetting who I really am, because when I think about me from my unadulterated self I like me.

And someone wants you too!

Will the real YOU stand up. Will the authentic everyday around the house worn in slippers you show up in your life.

How to Attract HIM! Mr. Right (or Ms Right)

When you are being your authentic self, you are happier.

And happiness is a magnet for men. Your true love is looking for you right now. If you are not being your authentic, unadulterated self, how do you expect your true love, Mr. Right to find you?

Being authentic is one of the best-kept secrets to attract men and how to find true love.


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